"Once apon a time, there was a princess who lived in a castle with her stepmother ... at the end, the princess and the prince have a happy life ever." Can anyone tell me there is fairy tale stories exist ever?
If yes, and they happen on you, Congratulations! You are lucky one. I don't like reading fairy tales, not even contemporary love stories. There are number of famous authors writing romantic fictions in Hong Kong, for example, Yi Shu and Amy Cheung. However, I had only read one fiction called Life is a Moment Story (朝花夕拾) by Yi Shu in my entire life, and I am not going to read more this kind of fictions. Not because the story is bored, but I am too easy to put myself into the character. Tears ran out every time I finished the story. During the period I read it, I always imagined if I could met anyone from the future. However, the possibility is 0.0000000..1% and I will suffer in a great disappointment if I still living in my imaginations.
Within the stories, you can always see perfect match. Being a perfect match is not that easy in the reality. In the fairy tales, prince & princess are the first love of each other, and the only relationship ever. Frankly, I am not. I had gone through several relationships before this. At the same time, I have to accept my partner is not a plain paper as well. "I have" doesn't mean "I have already" accept this, I am still learning indeed. Reviewing what I did recently: keep asking my boyfriend about his former relationship and keep challenging his honesty on me, know what, these are just ignoring (though i did all). I've found how stupid I am just now! Not asking you to deceive yourself if something really happen, but do not create any problems to you & him. Loyalty & Trust are very important in a relationship, especially in a long distance one.
If you are rational or not a creative one, go and read some romantic fictions. You can find alot of fun and romance. Remember, do not love in blind, but love smart.
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